Tidbits

Be patient and understanding. Surely we all could be more patient and understanding, especially with the people we love. This is doubly so for people who are married, if for no better reason than because you'll still be there after whatever caused the stress blows over. And well, because you love her, right?

 Be open. She may have ideas or opinions you might not want to hear. Try to be open anyway. This doesn't mean you have to agree with everything she says, but it does mean that you don't have to argue with her.

  Demonstrate. It's not enough to tell your wife you love her, or to buy her a card every now and then. If you truly love your wife, and want to be a good husband, you have to do things periodically to show it. Things like surprise her with stuff she likes. Or things like hugging and kissing her even if it won't lead to sex. Do things that mean something to just the two of you. And remember, once in a blue moon is not enough! You need to do something demonstrative just about  much every day.

Be respectful. Don't yell at her. Don't call her names. Don't demean her. Say please and thank you. Open the door for her. Get things for her without asking. These are things guys do to show they love someone. If you don't do them, she's likely to think you don't.