Integrity

A woman wants a man who has integrity. Do what you say. Be upfront, honest and open. Be real.

I have struggled with this issue most of my adult life. I would say I'll do this or that and then never do it. Good intentions will get you exactly NOWHERE in life. You have to mean what you say and do what you say your gonna do. Simple as that. If I ask my wife if there's anything I can do around the house and she gives me a list of things to do, I'm damn sure gonna do it. Maybe not the second she wants it done, but it will get done. I'm not telling you to let her walk all over you and be her slave (although some women would just LOVE that) no, I'm talking about integrity. Follow through.

Be honest with your wife. If something is bothering you, let her know. Don't hold it in, it's not healthy. If she's doing something that you don't particularly like, let her know. Maybe you don't like her meatloaf or lasagna, tell her. Or maybe she shaves her legs and doesn't clean up after herself (some women are nasty) let her know it bothers you and try to be respectful about it. These are just examples, don't get carried away here.
 You can make things much easier on yourself by being honest. Although some things are better left unsaid. They don't have to know EVERYTHING your thinking. There may be  times when you would like to put a plastic bag around her...never mind, too far.
 But you get the point.
But if it pertains to your marriage or her, let her know about it. This is how issues get resolved.
COMMUNICATION!! It goes a long way guys.
Be real. When you first met her you were probably all sweet and lovey, buying her flowers all the time and saying cute little things to her and after awhile those flowers stopped showing up and the cute little sayings have disappeared. Be real from the beginning.  Be honest with your feelings and thoughts. This may not be easy for most men, however a lot women do want to know what's going on in that thick head of ours. So just be yourself from the get go. It's not too late to return to that sweet caring guy she met years ago.
 Don't turn into the boring guy you see on t.v. shows. Be the man you wan to be all of the time. Be the loving, caring husband that has integrity and honesty. Be the man who's not afraid to share his feelings and thoughts with his wife or girlfriend. Women love it and sometimes it turns them on. Believe or not they do like it.

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